Ruth and Boaz

In reading the story of Ruth this week, I was impressed by the qualities of Ruth and Boaz. Certain qualities should be instilled in teens today. First, Boaz was compassionate and kind. He tells Ruth who is working in his field, “I have warned the young men not to treat you roughly. And, when you are thirsty, help yourself to the water they have drawn from the well.” In just a few sentences, Boaz demonstrated his kindness. Men and boys should honor women in their words and actions. Kindness and compassion should be demonstrated. How often are females demoralized bullied, or sexualized in the culture today? Males should strive to be protective and caring with an awareness of the “roughness” in society.

Second, Ruth demonstrated loyalty to her mother-in-law Naomi by following her to a different home and working for their food. Boaz recognized the qualities of loyalty and courage in Ruth’s actions. She did not seek to find herself another husband. Ruth was virtuous (had high moral standards). Though it might not be vogue in our sophisticated culture, moving onto the next person or mate did not happen for Ruth. Females should strive to also be caring and compassionate with an awareness of the need to be loyal and moral (not to idolize self, but highly esteem others in right actions) in relationships. Young women, be patient in your desire for a relationship.

Boaz also respected boundaries in relationships. The closest redeeemer was to claim Ruth and Naomi’s land. Boaz received permission to wed Ruth and be her redeemer. Boaz respected boundaries. Young and older men, also demonstrate loyalty and fidelity (faithfulness) to family.

Last, the concept of redeemer or rescuer may be foreign to our culture today. By rescuing Ruth, a path was made for Christ. Boaz spoke of blessings from God, as did Naomi. Putting Jesus at the center of relationships and recognizing Him as the ultimate rescuer, authority, and provider helps us to live rightly with one another. Blessings will surely follow.